Jade Small
Jade Small
October 19, 2024 ·  6 min read

10 signs of an arrogant person (and 10 easy ways to deal with them)

Arrogance can make social interactions uncomfortable and draining. Arrogant individuals often display behaviors that highlight their perceived superiority. Here are 10 signs of an arrogant person, followed by 10 simple strategies for dealing with them.

1. They Dominate Conversations

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Arrogant people tend to hijack conversations, making it all about themselves. They often interrupt others or talk over them, dismissing different viewpoints. Their focus is on showcasing their opinions and knowledge. This behavior can make others feel unheard and unimportant.

2. They Rarely Apologize

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Arrogant people have a hard time admitting when they’re wrong. They avoid apologies because they see themselves as above mistakes. When confronted, they may deflect blame or give insincere, half-hearted apologies. This makes it difficult to resolve conflicts with them.

3. They Boast About Their Achievements

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Bragging is a common trait among arrogant individuals. They like to frequently remind others of their successes, often in an exaggerated manner. Their need for validation drives them to seek admiration from everyone around them. This constant self-promotion can become tiresome for others.

4. They Belittle Others

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Arrogant people tend to put others down to elevate themselves. They may criticize, mock, or dismiss others’ ideas to appear more intelligent or capable. This can create an uncomfortable environment where others feel undervalued. Their need to feel superior often comes at the expense of others’ self-esteem.

5. They Are Highly Judgmental

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Arrogant individuals tend to judge others harshly. They often look down on people they consider less capable or accomplished. Their comments are often condescending, making others feel inferior. This judgmental attitude can create a toxic atmosphere in personal or professional settings.

6. They Never Seek Help or Advice

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Arrogant people refuse to ask for help because they believe they know everything. They view seeking assistance as a sign of weakness. Even when they clearly need guidance, they’ll push through on their own to maintain an image of superiority. This can lead to poor decision-making and unnecessary struggles.

7. They Ignore Feedback

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Constructive criticism often falls on deaf ears with arrogant individuals. They believe they don’t need to improve and will dismiss feedback, no matter how helpful. Their unwillingness to listen makes it difficult for them to grow or learn from mistakes. Over time, this limits their personal and professional development.

8. They Expect Special Treatment

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Arrogant people often feel entitled to better treatment than others. They believe they deserve special privileges and will get upset if they don’t receive them. This sense of entitlement can create tension in relationships and work environments. It also leads to frustration when their unrealistic expectations aren’t met.

9. They Display Overconfidence

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An arrogant person often has an inflated sense of their abilities. They overestimate their skills and rarely acknowledge their limitations. This overconfidence can lead them to take on tasks they aren’t equipped for, often resulting in failure. Their unwillingness to admit faults keeps them stuck in this cycle.

10. They Lack Empathy

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Arrogant individuals often struggle to understand or care about others’ feelings. They’re focused on their own needs and desires, ignoring how their actions affect those around them. This lack of empathy makes it difficult to connect with them on a deeper level. Others may feel emotionally drained after interacting with them.

10 Ways to Deal with an Arrogant Person

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Dealing with an arrogant person can be challenging, but there are strategies that can help you navigate these situations with ease. Arrogance often stems from deep-seated insecurities, so it’s essential to approach the person calmly while maintaining your own boundaries. By using smart tactics, you can minimize the negative impact their behavior has on you. Here are 10 ways to deal with an arrogant person effectively.

1. Set Boundaries

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Arrogant people can often overstep boundaries in conversations and relationships. It’s important to clearly define what is acceptable and what isn’t. Communicate your limits respectfully but firmly, letting them know when their behavior becomes disruptive or disrespectful. This helps you maintain control over the interaction.

2. Stay Calm

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When faced with arrogance, it’s easy to get frustrated or defensive. However, reacting emotionally only fuels their sense of superiority. Staying calm allows you to handle the situation with grace and keeps you from engaging in an unproductive argument. Remaining composed helps you maintain control over the interaction.

3. Focus on Facts

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Arrogant individuals often rely on opinions or exaggerated claims to dominate conversations. Keep discussions grounded in facts and data, which can counter their need to appear superior. By sticking to concrete evidence, you can diffuse their attempts to steer the conversation toward self-promotion. This also ensures that the conversation stays productive and focused.

4. Limit Engagement

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Sometimes the best approach is to limit how much time and energy you invest in engaging with them. If an arrogant person constantly seeks validation through boastful stories, you can politely disengage. Not giving them an audience can reduce their motivation to keep bragging. This strategy helps preserve your own energy and mental well-being.

5. Stand Your Ground

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It’s easy to feel belittled in the presence of an arrogant person. However, it’s crucial to assert yourself and express your views confidently. Let them know that your opinions and perspectives are equally valid. By standing your ground, you show them that they can’t easily dominate or dismiss you.

6. Offer Constructive Criticism

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Though they may resist it, offering constructive criticism can sometimes make an arrogant person reflect on their behavior. Frame your feedback in a positive, non-confrontational way. Doing so helps avoid triggering their defensiveness, while still addressing the issue. Over time, they might be more open to hearing different viewpoints.

7. Redirect the Conversation

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Arrogant individuals often steer conversations back to themselves. To avoid this, gently redirect the discussion to a more balanced topic. This can prevent them from monopolizing the conversation and keep it enjoyable for everyone involved. It also encourages more inclusive dialogue.

8. Don’t Take It Personally

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Arrogance often stems from personal insecurity, and their behavior isn’t a reflection of your worth. Try not to take their comments or actions personally. Understanding that their arrogance is more about them than you can help you detach emotionally from the situation. This makes it easier to handle interactions without feeling hurt.

9. Lead by Example

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Sometimes, the best way to deal with arrogance is to model humility yourself. By showing kindness, respect, and humility, you set a standard for how people should treat each other. While you may not change their behavior overnight, your example could eventually influence how they act around you. Plus, it fosters a more positive environment for everyone.

10. Know When to Walk Away

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If the person’s arrogance becomes too much, it’s perfectly okay to distance yourself. Not every situation can be managed, and some people may never change. Protecting your mental and emotional well-being is more important than tolerating toxic behavior. Walking away can be the healthiest choice for maintaining your peace.

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