Jade Small
Jade Small
December 4, 2024 ·  4 min read

The Dumbest Things People Have Done for Love

Love has a funny way of clouding judgment, turning the most rational among us into wide-eyed romantics willing to do just about anything for affection. From cringeworthy gestures to outright embarrassing decisions, these real-life stories showcase just how far people have gone for love—and lived to tell the tale.

I Let Her Spend All My Money

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What started as sweet gestures like buying dinner or small gifts spiraled into something much bigger. One person shared how they found themselves covering everything from bills to trips for their partner, only realizing the extent of their financial sacrifices when a friend raised an eyebrow at their generosity.

I Tried a Dramatic Movie Serenade

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Inspired by Say Anything, someone thought it’d be romantic to stand outside their crush’s window with a boombox. Unfortunately, their choice of Whitney Houston’s song from The Bodyguard didn’t impress, and the moment ended up more awkward than cinematic.

I Followed Her to College

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After a fling fizzled out, one love-struck individual decided to enroll at the same college—and even the same dorm—as their ex in hopes of rekindling the flame. While their plan didn’t pan out, they ultimately met their future spouse there, proving love works in mysterious ways.

I Waited While She Went Out with Another Guy

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High school heartbreak hit hard for one person who biked to their girlfriend’s house only to find her leaving with someone else. Instead of heading home, they sat behind the house and waited until she returned—a lesson in youthful naivety.

I Moved States for Love

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Hoping to salvage a struggling long-distance relationship, one person packed up and moved across states to live with their partner. The romantic gamble didn’t pay off—they broke up within two months.

I Embarrassed Myself with a Belly Flop

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Middle school crushes can lead to some painful lessons. One boy tried to impress his gymnast crush by attempting a backflip at the pool, only to end up with a painful belly flop and a summer spent on the sidelines while she moved on to someone else.

I Tried to Bond with Her Dad

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In an effort to impress a girlfriend’s family, an atheist attended weekly beers-and-bible-study sessions with her dad for an entire year. Despite their dedication, the experience was anything but enjoyable.

I Went Semi-Stalker

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One person admitted to not understanding boundaries in high school, repeatedly showing up at places they knew their crush would be—even roping in friends to appear less conspicuous. It wasn’t until the crush’s friends threatened legal action that they realized their behavior was crossing the line.

I Sent Him a Strange Painting

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Creativity took a bizarre turn when someone painted their body green, pressed themselves onto craft paper, and mailed the resulting “artwork” to their long-distance partner. Let’s just say it wasn’t a masterpiece.

I Tried Dangerous Stunts

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A college student tried to impress a skater girl by performing Jackass-style stunts, from racing stolen wheelchairs into traffic to holding onto a truck at high speeds. The reckless antics didn’t win her heart, but they certainly left some bruises.

I Drove for Hours Only to Leave

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Romantic road trips sound idyllic—unless they involve driving five hours to see someone, only to leave a few hours later for a cross-country flight. While exhausting, the grand gesture showed just how far they were willing to go for love.

I Left a Cheesy Love Note

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High school creativity struck again when someone left a matchbook on their crush’s doorstep with the INXS-inspired note, “Light me and I’ll burn for you.” Another time, they left a grocery cart with a note saying, “I’m a basket case for you.” Unfortunately, the crush already had a long-term girlfriend.

I Rear-Ended Someone While Staring

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Caught off guard by the sight of their crush pumping gas in a bikini, one person rear-ended another car at a stoplight. While no serious damage occurred, their embarrassment skyrocketed as they had to explain the situation to both the driver and the police.

I Kept Taking Him Back

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Despite catching him in lies and infidelity multiple times, one woman kept forgiving her partner, hoping her loyalty would inspire him to change. Instead, it left her filled with resentment and regret, teaching her the importance of self-worth.

Conclusion: Love Can Be a Humbling Teacher

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Love has a way of inspiring grand gestures—and even grander mistakes. From risky stunts to embarrassing serenades, these stories remind us that love often comes with lessons in humility. While these decisions may seem cringeworthy in hindsight, they’re proof of just how far we’re willing to go when our hearts are leading the way.

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