Sometimes, traditional celebrations just don’t meet the practical needs of modern moms. That’s exactly what one expectant mother realized when she ditched the usual baby shower festivities for something far more useful—a nesting party. Nia Lui, a mother of three, turned the spotlight away from games and gifts and onto what truly mattered: getting her home ready for her baby. Her unique approach has struck a chord with moms everywhere.
What Is a Nesting Party?
@nialui21 Replying to @Haley Sheppard Every pregnant mom needs a nesting party. If you’re pregnant and don’t want a baby shower, do this. If you have a pregnant friend, do this for them! #nestingparty #nestingmom #nestingmode #pregnantmom #pregnancy #babyshower #nestingmama #thirdtrimester #ittakesavillage #myvillage @Bri Welcker ♬ original sound – Nia Lui
Instead of gathering for baby-themed games and gift unwrapping, Lui invited her friends over to lend a helping hand. With a clear to-do list in hand, her group of friends cleaned, organized, and prepped her home for her newest arrival. The result? A practical celebration where tasks got done and friendships flourished.
A Friend’s Thoughtful Gesture
The idea came from Lui’s friend, Bree, who organized the event with thoughtful precision. Lui provided a list of chores that needed to be tackled before her baby arrived. Bree took the reins by creating task cards for each guest, assigning them specific responsibilities like deep-cleaning the house, organizing the kitchen, or setting up the nursery.
An Opportunity to Supervise and Connect
@nialui21 Replying to @katiecusic Nesting party answers. #nestingparty #babyshower #nesting #nestingmom #womensupportingwomen #momlife #sahm #pregnantmom #nestingmode #nestingmama #thirdtrimester #pregnancy #ittakesavillage #bethevillage #greenscreen ♬ original sound – Nia Lui
Lui embraced her supervisory role during the event, guiding her friends on how she wanted things arranged. But it wasn’t all work. The group paused for a cozy dinner of soup, sourdough bread, and treats, sharing laughs and bonding over stories about the baby’s impending arrival.
Why Skip the Baby Shower?
For Lui, a traditional baby shower just didn’t feel right. She explained in a follow-up video that she doesn’t enjoy being the center of attention or playing typical shower games. As a third-time mom, she already had most of the baby essentials, so gifts weren’t necessary. What she needed was hands-on help—and that’s exactly what her friends delivered.
A Home Transformed
After a day of teamwork, Lui’s home was spotless, organized, and ready for her baby. She described feeling a sense of peace and readiness thanks to her friends’ efforts. “Everything was so clean and organized,” she shared. “I feel so much more ready for this baby.”
TikTok Moms Are On Board
Lui’s TikTok video documenting her nesting party struck a chord with viewers, many of whom declared they’d prefer a nesting party over a traditional baby shower. One commenter admitted, “Honestly, I’d prefer doing this to sitting for three hours watching someone open presents.” Others shared how they wished they’d known about nesting parties during their pregnancies.
More Than Just Baby Prep
Nesting parties also sparked conversations about redefining celebrations. Some commenters noted that they’d choose a nesting party over bridal showers, too. One user summed it up beautifully: “This is a true village, and I love everything about it.”
A Celebration That Truly Helps
In a culture often focused on gift-giving for milestones, Lui and her friends showcased a different kind of support—one rooted in action rather than material things. Their nesting party demonstrated that sometimes, the best gift isn’t a wrapped package but a helping hand. It’s a reminder that meaningful celebrations don’t just mark life’s moments—they help us prepare for them.
Lui’s nesting party is inspiring a wave of moms to rethink how they celebrate life’s milestones. After all, who wouldn’t want a little help and a lot of love when preparing for a new chapter?
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